Treat Erection Problems Now!Is it necessary to treat erectile problems?Is it hard to treat erection problems? |
Erection problems are thought of in several ways. But the best definition is this: you have an erection problem when you can't sustain an erection for long enough to penetrate your partner and reach orgasm through vaginal thrusting.Does this matter? When I had erection problems, my female partner and I came to the conclusion that one way to avoid the worst effects of it would be for me to give her loads of cunnilingus, and for me to receive loads of fellatio anon my flaccid penis. We also spent a lot of time cuddling! Indeed, we actually got to the stage where I could reach orgasm even with no erection if she stimulated me for long enough. It isn't impossible this could have gone on for ever if it hadn't been for one small thing..... One night after we'd had the pleasure of this kind of sex, she lay back and then said, with a lump in her throat: "I'm sorry, but this isn't good enough for me." When I eventually got her to explain what was the matter, she said that her last boyfriend had been able to go for thirty minutes with a rock-hard erection, and she had then reached orgasm through vaginal thrusting. This made me - with my weak, semi-erect penis, feel even more bad about myself than I already did, if that were possible. And then she hit me with this: "I want," she said, "to come that way again.....with someone." Uh ho. This sounded serious - could she really be contemplating leaving me just because I couldn't get my dick erect? Well, I'll leave you to guess at the answer, because I didn't hang around to find out - I started working on my problem right there and then. So - it seems to me that you must treat you erection problems if you want to keep your partner from finding her sexual pleasure somewhere else. And besides, if you're not enjoying sex, what's keeping you two together in the relationship anyway? If you and your partner don't mind your erection problems, and it's just another aspect of your sex life you like, then don't feel any pressure to deal with it. But for those of you who fall into this category, there is a simple self-relaxation technique you can use which may assist you to develop a harder erection. Click here to find out more. To recap: Erection problems may not be a challenge for a couple if you're both relaxed about your sex life and you don't mind not having vaginal penetration and thrusting. My girl and I were definitely very upset about it - she because she wanted to feel my penis inside her vagina, and me because I felt impotent and emasculated. And another thing to keep in mind is that erection problems are something that happens beyond your control - you may not know how to stop them, you may not know why they started, and you may not be able to work out a way to solve the problem unless you read this website. What are the causes of erection problems? Why do erections come and go during sex? What treatments are available to cure erection problems?
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